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Couple Poses for Pictures That Don't Look Staged

By The PosePal team · · 5 min read

A young couple laughing on a city street in a back hug, his arms wrapped around her waist and her hands on his arms

The worst couple photos have the same problem. Two people standing side by side, a gap between them, both smiling at the camera like it’s a passport photo. You can’t tell if they’re dating or just met at the bus stop.

Good couple photos look like something was happening. You were laughing, walking, leaning in. The poses below are built around that. Each one gives you something to do, so you’re not just standing there.

Before you start: three rules

Close the gap. Whatever pose you pick, stand closer than feels normal. Even a little air between you reads as distance on camera.

Look at each other, not just the lens. Some of the best shots are the ones where only one of you, or neither of you, is looking at the camera.

Keep moving. Walk, laugh, sway, whisper something stupid. Shoot a burst and pick the frame afterwards. A frozen pose looks frozen.

15 couple poses

1. The forehead touch

Face each other and lean in until your foreheads touch. Close your eyes or look down. Hands go on each other’s waist or face. It’s quiet and close, and it works almost anywhere.

2. The back hug

One of you stands behind the other and wraps their arms around the waist. The one in back can rest their chin on the other’s shoulder, or turn their face toward their neck. The one in front can hold the arms around them. Great for showing off an outfit or a view.

3. Walking hand in hand

Hold hands and walk toward the camera, or away from it, without looking at the lens. Talk to each other as you go. Whoever’s taking the photo should shoot a burst while you walk a few steps.

4. Looking back over the shoulder

Walk away from the camera holding hands. The one in front glances back over their shoulder at the camera, or at their partner. It tells a little story, like you’re leading them somewhere.

5. Laughing into each other

Stand close, side by side, and have one of you say something that makes the other laugh. The laughing one turns into the other’s shoulder. Real laughter is impossible to fake well, so get one of you to say something genuinely silly.

6. The almost-kiss

Lean in like you’re about to kiss and stop just before. Noses close, eyes closed or looking down. It often looks more romantic than an actual kiss, which tends to squash faces.

7. The cheek kiss

One kisses the other on the cheek while the other smiles at the camera or closes their eyes. Easy, sweet and good for a profile picture.

8. Sitting on steps

Sit on a step or a low wall, one slightly higher than the other. The one above leans their arms or chin on the other’s shoulders. Steps are the easiest way to get two different heights into one frame.

9. Shoulder lean on a bench

Sit side by side and have one of you rest their head on the other’s shoulder. Link arms or hold hands on your laps. Simple and calm.

10. The twirl

Hold one hand up and spin your partner under it. Shoot the burst mid-spin. Skirts, dresses and long hair make this one especially good.

11. The dip

Ballroom style: one leans the other back while supporting their back. Don’t go too low. A small dip with both of you laughing looks better than a dramatic one with a strained face.

12. Piggyback

One climbs on the other’s back. Both look at the camera or at each other. It’s playful and it always gets a real smile.

13. One looks, one smiles

One of you looks at the camera and smiles. The other looks at their partner instead. It’s a small detail, and it makes the photo feel like it’s about the two of you.

14. Sharing a jacket or umbrella

Huddle under one jacket held over your heads, or one umbrella. It pulls you close, gives your hands a job and looks good in bad weather.

15. Lying on the grass, heads together

Lie on your backs with your heads side by side, facing opposite directions, and shoot straight down from above. Hair spread out, a picnic blanket, fall leaves. It’s a different angle from everything else in your camera roll.

Fixing height differences

A big height difference is easy to work with. Don’t hide it, just control it.

  • The taller one can bend a knee, widen their stance or lean on something.
  • Put the shorter one on a step, a curb or a slope.
  • Sitting poses even out height almost completely.
  • Back hugs and piggybacks look great with a height difference.

What to do with your hands

Hands on each other: waist, shoulder, the back of the neck, the face, linked fingers. If one of you has a free hand, put it in a pocket or on a hip. For more ideas, see our guide on what to do with your hands in photos.

Taking it yourselves

You don’t need a photographer.

  • Prop your phone on something at chest height and use the timer. A few seconds is enough to get into position.
  • Use the back camera, not the selfie camera. It’s sharper.
  • Shoot from slightly above eye level. It’s more flattering than shooting from below.
  • Take lots. With a timer, you might need ten tries to get one where you’re both mid-laugh.
  • Want the classic arm’s-length couple selfie? Hold the phone a bit higher than your faces, and both lean in toward the lens.

Where to try these

Golden hour, the last hour before sunset, makes almost every couple pose look better. The light is soft and warm and nobody squints. Quiet streets, beaches, parks and steps all work well.

If you want a pose to follow instead of a list to remember, PosePal has couple and honeymoon poses you can pick from, and the guide shows up right in your camera while you line yourselves up.